What to Wear as a Wedding Guest
Wedding season is here, and with it comes the question: what to wear? Whether the dress code calls for gala, black tie, summer chic, or even only black, I have curated looks for every kind of celebration.
Each outfit is built around what matters most to me—the jewellery. From bold statement pieces to subtle touches of gold, the right Libelula piece brings a sense of personal style and meaning to any wedding guest's look. Consider this your guide to dressing with elegance, whatever the dress code.
Gala Wedding Attire
The most formal dress code—floor-length gowns are a must. Try to opt for elegant fabrics and classic silhouettes. Think elevated accessories, heels, and of course, standout jewellery to complete the look. For the gents, tuxedo is the only option. Men can opt for a classic tuxedo or even white tie, but only if they are certain the groom is doing the same—the groom should always have the most formal look in the room.
The silk satin bustier gown in yellow from The Sei is a perfect choice for a gala dress code—elegant, striking, and effortlessly refined. Paired with the iconic Bottega Veneta Knot clutch in black and classic black heels from Celine, the look is polished and timeless. The jewellery elevates it all with the Kelly Bracelet from Libelula, the Floating Diamond Necklace in 18K gold with 0.7 ct Top Wesselton VVS diamond brings a soft, radiant highlight to the neckline. The Emerald Cut Engagement Ring is the final, breathtaking detail, The ring is bold, personal, and goes perfectly with the outfit.
All Black Wedding Attire
A bold and unexpected dress code, yet incredibly chic. All-black attire allows for sleek silhouettes, rich textures, and elevated details. It’s dramatic, timeless, and leaves room for statement jewellery to truly shine—just as it did at my own wedding in London last year.
For the all-black dress code, the Pandora velvet gown from Galvan is a standout—elegant, timeless, and a reminder that texture alone can transform simplicity into sophistication. The Bottega Veneta Andiamo Clutch brings structure, perfectly balancing function with style. For beauty touch-ups, The Corrector from Bob Beauté is a must-have in your bag, alongside a trusted lipstick that lasts all night. On your feet, Aquazzura heels strike the right note of grace and comfort. And of course, the jewellery to finish your beautiful all black look. Libelula’s Mon Petit Diamond Earrings, the elegantly chic Mon Petit Tennis Bracelet, and the show-stopping Diamond Cocktail Ring in 18K gold with a 4ct Top Wesselton VVS diamond—each piece bold, refined, and unforgettable.
Black Tie Wedding Attire
The next dress code is the classic Black Tie. Black Tie doesn’t mean a black tie per se, but it does mean that men must wear a tuxedo—no exceptions. A guest should never wear a white tuxedo jacket, as this is traditionally reserved for the groom. Women can wear a long gown, but a shorter cocktail dress is also acceptable, as long as the fabric and styling feel elegant.
For this dress code, I’ve chosen a black Prada mini dress with an elegant neckline—sophisticated, sleek, and just the right amount of statement. A gold Bottega Veneta clutch adds warmth and contrast, while Prada heeled sandalscomplete the look with polished ease. In your bag: a classic red lipstick and Chanel hand cream—small luxuries that keep you feeling fresh and pulled together. The jewellery is minimal yet striking: Libelula’s My Heart Project ring stack paired with the Classic Golden Hoops brings just the right amount of glow.
Summer Chic Wedding Attire
This dress code strikes the balance between relaxed and refined. Flowy midi or maxi dresses in lightweight fabrics like linen or silk are ideal—florals, pastels, or soft prints work beautifully. For shoes, go for elegant flats, heels, or strappy sandals that can handle grass or cobblestones. Finish the look with delicate, light-catching jewellery for an effortless summer glow.
For a summer chic wedding, the yellow Rebecca Vallance dress is a flawless choice—bright, refined, and still classy. Styled with a classic white Chanel bag, it’s the perfect piece to hold your pressed Chanel powder and a lip gloss for subtle touch-ups. Jewellery is where the elegance really shines. The Empowerment Ring becomes the focal point of the look, bold yet graceful. Paired with the Gold Paris Bracelet and gold Valentino sandals, the outfit feels effortlessly elevated—exactly what a wedding during summer calls for.
Colorful Wedding Attire
A colourful dress code is playful and expressive—but it can vary in formality. Look to the venue and time of day for clues: a garden brunch likely calls for a midi dress in bold prints or bright pastels, while an evening reception might suit a vibrant silk gown. Tailored suits in rich tones are perfect for men. The key is to embrace colour with confidence, and let jewellery add a polished, intentional touch to your look.
For a colourful wedding dress code, a pink mini dress from Magda Butrym is both beautiful and perfect to dance in. Paired with silver Aquazzura sandals and a baby pink Chanel purse, the look feels fresh yet elevated. Don’t forget your SPF to protect your skin and a go-to lip gloss to keep everything fresh throughout the celebration. Jewellery brings it all together: the Rikke Necklace is a true showstopper, the Hanna Bangle adds sculptural elegance, and the Morganite Engagement Ring with its soft pink hue ties everything in with quiet romance.
Smart Casual Wedding Attire
For this dress code, it´s all about dressing polished, but not overly formal—smart casual is about striking that stylish middle ground. A tailored dress, a sleek skirt and blouse combo, or refined trousers with an elevated top all work well. Fabrics should feel intentional—linen, cotton, silk blends—and footwear can range from elegant flats to low heels. For men, think relaxed tailoring, no tie required. Finish with understated yet thoughtful jewellery to tie everything together.
The Magda Butrym polka dot mini dress is a charming choice for a smart casual wedding—playful yet polished. I’ve elevated the look with refined accessories like the Loro Piana Extra Pocket Bag, Celine sunglasses, and Aquazzura heels add just the right amount of sophistication. In your bag, I’d keep a few favourites. I personally love the Gucci Baume à Lèvres, a Chanel gloss, and a mini Mason Pearson brush for quick fixes. For jewellery, Libelula’s Soul Earrings and classic Tennis Bracelet strike the perfect balance between effortless elegance and timeless detail.